How Do I Keep My Kids Busy?

DEAR SHERRY:

My kids are driving me crazy! Do you have any advice about how to keep them busy when they aren't in camp?

Thank you!

DRIVEN CRAZY

DEAR DRIVEN CRAZY:

It can be challenging when kids aren't in school and their time isn't structured. I hope these tips help to make your summer a little more enjoyable.

*Accept they are going to drive you crazy; they are kids.

*Remember, it is not your job to keep them busy, ask them what they would like to do. Let your children know that you trust that they can figure out how they would like to spend their time. If you always structure their time, they will not learn how to do so.

*Engage in a project together: plant a garden, organize your photos, clean out a closet.

*Take them to the beach, a park, or a lake. Enjoy a day trip, visit all of the creameries in your state, or go on a hike; there are many beautiful hiking trails. Listen to music on your town green, go bowling, go for a bike ride, visit the coastal state parks and have lunch in those towns.

*Let them sit on screens; they may surprise you and get bored of them. Mine did!

*If they are arguing with their siblings, listen to both sides. Ask each child what they can do differently to improve the situation. Do not take sides (even if one is older).

*Assign them chores or have them help you with yours. Examples might include: cooking dinner, vacuuming, emptying all the garbage bins in the house, folding the laundry, emptying the dishwasher, washing and drying the dishes, making the beds, or washing the car.

*Read the "The Conscious Parent: Transforming Ourselves, Empowering Our Children." It will help you see all the beautiful things your kids are here to teach you, especially when driving you crazy.

*Talk to your children, ask them what they would like to do this summer. Encourage them to come up with at least three ideas.

*Put down your To-Do list and play with them; they won't be little forever.

Wishing you joy and patience!

SHERRY